…..and so it has begun. Music is starting to break out everywhere and many artists are “quietly rushing” to bust through the starting gate. With fewer venues, and so far, slightly smaller audiences, (which is going to mean a slightly lower pay day in the short term). I think the gates are going to get so jammed you won’t be able to slip a blade of grass through (among other things). It’s going to be quality over quantity so I hope all those drumsticks, keyboards and guitars are “sharpened”, tuned and at the ready. There’s been roughly 18 months of “practice” time.
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Pat Blythe – On your mark…..book report……and music (of course)
Posted in Books, Canadian Music, COVID 19, life, music, Opinion, Review with tags anxiety, Brené Brown, DBAWIS, Depression, Don’t Believe A Word I Say, Furiously Happy, Jenny Lawson, John-Angus MacDonald, keep live alive, Let’s Pretend This Never Happened, luvthemusic, masking, mental health, Mental Illness, mental wellbeing, music, Pat Blythe, Podbean, podcast, psychosis, rheumatoid arthritis, schizophrenia, The Pandemic Interviews, The Trews on August 4, 2021 by segariniPeter and Betty – Together
Posted in Family, Health, life, Opinion with tags DBAWIS, Depression, Elizabeth Stevenson, London, Peter Montreuil, segarini, Women's College Hospital on May 27, 2021 by segariniThis week, Loyal Reader, we start off in a dark, depressing place. However, thankfully, my story does have a happy ending, due to a number of factors.
In the period of misery I experienced after Lois’ passing, I came close to “hitting rock bottom”. I really don’t remember much of the last half of September, 2019, and I was actually happy to have the distraction of having to clear out Lois’ apartment the following month to enable me to focus my energy on something besides my all consuming grief. I couldn’t have finished that job in a timely manner without the help of Lois neighbour Kathy, who loaned me a dolly, and my nephew David, who came over and helped me out on two separate occasions, including going as far as renting a van to help me with moving the contents of the apartment, something I most certainly couldn’t have done using public transit. ( Happy birthday, David, by the way.) a)
Continue readingRoxanne Tellier – Time Enough at Last
Posted in Opinion with tags anxiety, Canadians, Cats, Covid, DBAWIS, Depression, global pandemic, grief, Mental Health Day, procrastination, segarini, Tellier, Time Enough At Last, time wasting, Twilight Zone on April 25, 2021 by segariniWhen it comes to excuses, I’ve got a million of ‘em. Even now, as I should be writing this column, I am thinking of two dozen other things that I should be doing first – like alphabetizing the vitamins in the bathroom cabinet or swinging up to the grocery store for some spices that I won’t need until Halloween.
Continue readingRoxanne Tellier – Eye Saw the Light
Posted in COVID 19, life, Opinion, politics, Review with tags Ageism, aging, Canada, cataract, DBAWIS, Depression, eyes, herd immunity, older, pension, segarini, Seniors, Soylent Green, Sweden, Tellier, TTC, White House on February 28, 2021 by segariniI’m not a big fan of this ‘aging’ stuff. But unfortunately, dealing with all the things that can go wrong as our bodies mature beats the snot out of the alternative.
Sometimes the drama of politics has to take a number and wait for my attention. This was one of those weeks. I had some routine cataract surgery that didn’t go as well as planned, and it took a lot of strong-arming to get that rectified.
I’ve long had the reputation of being the loudmouthed rebel, who takes no sh*t or prisoners, either for herself, or for those she loves. Not sure if it’s the Irish or the French in me, but that’s just the way I’ve always been. If you come for my people, you’d better come prepared for a fight.
Roxanne Tellier – Everybody Hurts
Posted in Family, Health, life, Opinion with tags Andy Capp. suicide, Anhedonia, anxiety, Black Dog, childhood trauma, DBAWIS, Depression, Everybody hurts, hopeful future, Joe Btfsplk, Johann Hari, kindness, Lost Connections, meaningful values, meaningful work, mental health. chemical imbalance, Nature, others, segarini, stable future, status, Tellier on July 26, 2020 by segariniLike many, I’ve suffered from depression and anxiety since I was a young child. Poor old Joe Btfsplk, the Al Capp ‘Lil Abner’ character who lived under a cloud at all times, had nothing on me. I had an ulcer by the time I was ten years old, and toyed with the idea of suicide throughout my teens.
Pat Blythe – A Different Path …and Music!
Posted in music, Opinion, Review with tags A Girl With A Camera "The Picture Taker", anxiety, Anxiety and Depression Association of America, bipolar, Bob Segarini, borderline personality disorder, CAMH, Canadian Mental Health Association, coping, DBAWIS, Depression, Free Label, James Blonde, manic depression, Pat Blythe, Ralph, Stars, The Ennis Sisters, Ziggy Alberts on July 3, 2019 by segariniMental health.
Did that grab your attention? It’s been on my mind and in my social media feeds in one form or another lately. There’s been so much hullaballoo from endless voices (not the ones in my head) and sources including the yearly Bell “Let’s Talk” campaign, personal stories and “helpful” advice on FB to the multiple daily postings from #soul, etc. on Instagram. I’m seeing “regular” ads and click-bate that offer instant help, healing and gratification (whatever the hell that is).
Roxanne Tellier – Managing A Blue Christmas
Posted in Opinion, Review with tags Artists' Health Centre, Blue Christmas, Bob Segarini, C-SARN, Canadian, Danes, DBAWIS, Depression, Elvis, holiday stress, hooga, hygge, light therapy lamps, Roxanne Tellier, SAD, Scandinavian, Seasonal Affective Disorder, Tim Hortons, Toronto Public Library. Toronto Reference Library. Canada, volunteering on December 23, 2018 by segariniMan, I cannot stand Elvis‘ song, “Blue Christmas.” And I’ll bet you have a couple of holiday tunes you could gladly live without for the rest of your life … enough’s enough on the “Grandma Got Run Over By A Reindeer,” amirite?
And no .. we’re not discussing the ‘controversy’ over “Baby It’s Cold Outside.” No, we are not.
But.
Roxanne Tellier – Daylight Savings And Other Idiocies
Posted in Opinion, politics, Review with tags America, Christianity, daylight saving, DBAWIS, democracy, Democrat, Department of Homeland Security, Depression, entitled, executive orders, Fascism, Gorsuch, Indie Week, Kavanaugh, l Trump's Last Stand, LGBTQ, Martin Atkins, Ontario, Playboy, racism, Republican, Roxanne Tellier, segarini, Supreme Court, United States, xenophobia on November 4, 2018 by segariniENOUGH already with this daylight saving nonsense. The cost to the country, and it’s citizens, has been recorded and shown to be of little to no benefit to the nation.