People die. I know they do. But the closer I come to the end myself, I become more reluctant to admit it. When I was young, death was funerals. You knew someone had passed by the crowd of well-dressed people lining the streets in front if a funeral home or the long line of cars passing by with lights on. Or the number of people at a church on a weekday afternoon. Or the serpentine of gatherers at a viewing, which at moments seemed to be a national event (the two which directly come to mind involving President Kennedy and Rudolph Valentino). At that young age, death was a ritual. I came to hate rituals.